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Kinky October

It's October my favorite month of the year. The leaves turn various hues of brown, the weather gets cooler, and it is time to celebrate my birthday.

Did you know what else we celebrate in October? October is National Kink Month and for a kinkster like myself I'm super excited to embrace my inner kinkiness. Each day is a new and exciting opportunity to try something new to spice up you sex life. Kink comes various forms and there are different levels depending on what you like.


What is kink?

In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" in one's sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities.

Basically, to be kinky is well as I like to say to be free and unapologetic of what you like sexually.

Each week I'll share tips and ideas on being kinky. Have fun and enjoy being kinky !


Listed below are ways to be kinky each day from Oct 1st -10th:

I'll share the remainder of the month next week.


Oct 1st: Intimate Kissing. Set a time limit to how long you must kiss before engaging in the next act. Oct 2nd: Exploring the Vagina. Look at it, stimulate multiple areas, and access the differences in feeling. Explore and see what you have been missing! Oct 3rd: Foot Play. Some people are really into feet, some are not. Do some research, and see what all the hubbub is about. Oct 4th: Foodie. Incorporate erotic edibles into your sex. Things like strawberries, honey, whip cream, or cucumbers. Get wild! Oct 5th: Servitude. Do a service for your partner like have them or read to them. Do it naked if you really want to spice it up. Oct 6th: Foreplay. Devote additional time to foreplay. Build some anticipation before penetration. Oct 7th: Couples Meditation. It is something wildly erotic about spiritually linking yourself to someone else. Oct 8th: Edging. Bring yourself, or your partner, to the breaking point, then back off. Repeat the process until you’re ready to explode! Oct 9th: Roleplay. Get into character, and be someone else! This can be as serious, or as playful as you like. Incorporate costumes to really turn it up. Oct 10th: Anal play. Remember to take your time and go slow. Start small and work your way up.

These first 10 days have fun and enjoy !

B Kinky

B Sexy

BGOODE

TwilaBGoode Sexologist Erotic and Intimacy Coach



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