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Initiate Sex with Emotional Connection

Erykah Badu has a song titled,"Put your phone down". Basically she's telling her partner she can make them put their phone down and they give them her undivided attention. When it comes to initiating sex one is wirh emotional connection.

Well what is emotional connection? How does one initiate sex this way?

Emotional connection is a bundle of subjective feelings that come together to create a bond between two people. So building the building an emotional connection with your partner can lead to sex.

I couldn't help but wonder, how does one do this? After doing some research here are some tips:

  1. Put the phone down and pay attention to each other. Limit distractions. This shows you're giving your partner your attention and nothing else matters.

  2. Talk ! Laugh! Remember pay attention to tone. Body language is a form of talking to your partner too. Hold hands.

  3. Eye contact when speaking look at each other

  4. Share interests, continue to learn your partner , and keep dating each other

  5. No TV! Once again no distractions.

Today, take time to build the emotional connection with your partner initiating sex.

Listen and put your phone down 😊

TwilaBGoode Sexologist

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